After being sick for so many weeks, i've actually come to realise that life is not just because of how good is your studies, how rich you are, how handsome/pretty you are and many many more.
instead life is very simple.
it's full of joy?anger?peace?sadness? and etc.
maybe it sound very fake or can be seen in those tv dramas but if we were to think deeper, isznt it true?
some of us have tried out different jobs in different industry so as to gain different job experience, but we didnt we try to see life from that angle?
shouldnt life be about trying out and gaining different types of experience in all areas?

just a simple illustration:
0-3 years old
we worked as a baby/toddler, so we learn how to chew, speak and walk.
4-12 years old:
soo after a few years of experiencing being a baby, we proceed to being a young child.
that's when we learn how to read, write and other things.
12-21 years old:
soo at this stage we're entering into a young adults world.
we learn what is responsibility, we learn how to cope with our money, we learn how to lie, we learn how to do things according to our will and not act along what other people want us to do.
21-40 years old:
TRUE ADULTS.there's where we enter into the working society, we learn how to walk out of our comfort zone whereby our parents woulnt be there to protect us, we learn how to live together with our partners, we learn how to be a parents.

soooo...
this is a simplified human's cycle which i have come out with.
i think at different stages we experience different things.
nobody can predict the future, let alone knowing what has been planned for us in the future.
then why should we be stressing ourself and torture ourself with something that we cant do nor control??