Just a reflection after catching up with 1 of my classmate on wednesday.
Boy-girl relationship seems to be a very funny and ironic game.
i classified it under game because somehow it's like those xbox games that you play whereby there're alot of stages and stuff.
beginning of the game, u'll find everything very new and interesting.
initially you tend to get addicted to it.
for relationship wise, when you first get attracted to somebody,you'll wanna know more about that person eg, the name, age,r/s statues and blah blah blah..
soo after playing the game for afew times, you tend to feel challenged when there're stages whereby you cant clear.but you'll still continue playing because in order to proceed to other stages, you'll have to clear the current stage first.
this scenario actually applys to relationship as well.
when you find that the person whom you are interested in doesnt show too much of a interest in you, you'll wanna do more to attract their attentions.however, there're times whereby you got rejected but you'll still continue to try because failure is the mother of success.
when you start to get the hang of the game, you'll tend to play the game more often be it daytime or nighttime.
this goes for relationship as well because once both parties starts to interact and open up to each other, you'll find that it seems that in this world there's just the 2 of you only.smses , msn chats or even phone calls just dont seems to end even when it's time to go to bed.
after clearing afew stages, it's now the bonus stage whereby you gotta claim all bonus within a specific timing.WARNING!there're some obsticales which you have to avoid while claming all these bonus.because the moment you touches it, all the credits that you've accumulated from the previous stages will be back to ZERO.
BONUS STAGE is actually a stage whereby the guy will start to confess to the girls.whether he'll succeed in winning her heart or he'll have to face the reality that the girl does not have feeling for him.this is also known as the obsticales.there're many types of obsticales, eg, the barrer which she feels coming between them and etc.
so after clearing the bonus stage you'll find that everything seems as easy as ABC because you thought you've familarise everything in this game.
once you're officially in a relationship, sometimes either the guy or the girl will assume that they understand each other very well, so as time passes the relationship arent as sweet as compared to the time when they have just started being in a relationship because human are borned to be like this, when they have it they're take it for granted but when they realise that they're losing it then...they'll start to treasure it again.
GAME OVER, part 1.
you've died in 1 of the stages, within 10sec click any of the button to restart this stage.
"I NEED A BREAK!!", it's time to know that both parties are drifting apart from each other.
it's not a matter of whether are you sick of that person but it's a matter of how much love you guys have contributed.in a relationship there're bound to be argument,quarrels and maybe fights?but when 1 person said this sentence it show that he/she found out that there's gap/crack in the relationship.how to revive this depends on whether are you willing to save this relationship.a short break means trying to slot out the thinking, but a long break means goodbye..
GAME OVER,part 2.
"EXIT".."ARE YOU SURE YOU WANT TO EXIT FROM THIS GAME?YES OR NO"
when both parties are tired of having to save the relationship,tired of each other, tired of everything shows that it's time to end this tiring relationship.

From the beginning of a relationship till the end of the relationship, there's actually many stages.
before we get into a relationship have we ever considered the type of ending we might get?
after getting in a relationship, have we ever considered whether will there be a future for us?
at the end of the relationship, have we ever thought of why in the first place will we wanna get into a relationship.
is it just out of curiousity or is it because of true love?♥